The Easy Path: Can’t get laid? Join the club. Literal club. With ranks, jargon, forums. Blackpill ideology gives you cosmic victimhood - “it’s all genetics, bone structure, canthal tilt.” Perfect excuse. Not your fault, not fixable, so why try?
The System: Tech platforms monetize male loneliness better than dating apps. Algorithm loves rage and despair - keeps you scrolling. Incel forums, redpill YouTubers, blackpill Discord servers. Everyone profits off your sexlessness.
Dating apps turned romance into marketplace where 80% of women chase 20% of men. Stats porn for incels - proof they’re right to quit. Tinder profits whether you match or marinate in resentment. Pharma waiting with antidepressants. Porn ready to fill the void.
The Choice: Yeah, modern dating is brutal. Height matters. Looks matter. All true.
But somewhere between “it’s hard” and “it’s impossible,” they chose impossible. Traded gym for forum. Swapped approaching women for analyzing hypergamy. Replaced awkward conversations with comfortable commiseration. The skuf move - finding tribe in shared failure instead of isolated struggle.
Most incels aren’t ugly - they’re average guys who decided average isn’t enough and quit entirely.
How many approaches would it take to find out if you’re actually undateable?